A couple of weeks ago we talked about whether or not we will have or mom be in the delivery room with us. At first I was all for my mom being in there with me and supporting me. But after talking about it and discussing it in class, I don't want my mom in the room with me.
Having the bond as a new family is very important. When the mom is in the room it can become a mother daughter and new baby bond. When it should be mom dad and new baby.
Its sad because a lot of times the dad gets pushed a side when a new baby come. And it shouldn't be like that. Each parents plays a key role in the babies life and has a new relationship with their spouse because of the baby. So the experience should bring you closer not pull you apart.
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